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Official Obituary of

Elizabeth "Betty" R. Packer

September 27, 1936 ~ March 11, 2024 (age 87) 87 Years Old
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Elizabeth "Betty" Packer Obituary

Betty R. Packer

Ontario: Passed away peacefully on March 11, 2024 surrounded by her family.  Betty was a woman with no filter and her main purpose was to make people laugh and smile!  Betty was a fun loving homemaker and very active in the community.  She was active in the neighborhood acting company for 15 years, a bowler, and a member of the Ontario Fire Company Auxiliary. I believe she fed everyone in Ontario at least once.  Her best accomplishment was her 4 children and 11 grandchildren and several great grandchildren.

Betty was predeceased by her husband of 64 years, Harold in 2021.  She is survived by her children Sharen (Tony) Florio, Reta (Ed) Schoonmaker,  Todd (Laurie) Packer, and Harold Packer Jr.; grandchildren, Billy (Manuela) Mitchell, Chad Brockman, Joshua (Donna) Schoonmaker, Justin (Alicia) Schoonmaker, Travis (Nicole) Packer, Meghan (Kenny) Zirbel, Jamie (Grant) Gefell, Heather Packer, Hollie Packer (Todd Hill), Haley (Tyler) Morris, Caitlyn Packer; 18 great grandchildren and a great, great grandchild due in April 2024.

Family and friends are invited to attend her calling hours on Wednesday, March 27, 2024, 4-7 PM at the Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapel, 1061 Ridge Road, Ontario, NY 14519.  In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of Betty may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.  To share a special memory please visit

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Calling Hours
March 27, 2024

4:00 PM to 7:00 PM
Murphy Funeral & Cremation Ontario Chapel
1961 Ridge Road
Ontario, NY 14519


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